Solution in Silence

Thanking is one way to find silence.

Parimala24 June To stop the divorce case, my husband has filed against me I am chanting “WOLF HELP TOGETHER HALF WAY DONE”. I stay in Chennai and had filed a plea in court to bring my hubby back. Those court dates are on and I have to go to Madurai once a month. Husband in turn filed for divorce in Chennai and I had to attend two dates here. Since it is not possible for me to keep going to 2 courts, I filed for a request in high court to transfer divorce case to Madurai. I just got a call from advocate that our case has been put up on board and he will inform me the status by afternoon. Is there anything that I can do, so that the divorce case gets dismissed on its own? The lawyer says it is possible bcoz hubby's lawyer has not been appearing in court on dates given. Lawyer asked me to pray to the judge to dismiss the case, but there are just 1-2% chances that it may happen with my verbal plea. Please pray sir that some miracle happens and the judge dismisses my husband's petition. June 25 I kept chanting the below mentioned switch words yesterday, so that I come out of the court case fast. By afternoon I got a call that my application for transfer of his divorce plea to Madurai is rejected. I will have to contest the case from Chennai only. Since I don’t know any good lawyer here and I was relying on my Madurai lawyer, I think I have lost the case. Husband is acting very shrewd and cunning, and neither in touch with me nor with my daughter. I and child are using the chants continuously for restoring the relationship but it’s not working. I'm very tired now and drained out emotionally, financially, physically. Don’t have the energy to fight it out. Please advise if I should agree for a divorce on mutual consent and set him free forever. I still love him a lot and will miss him throughout my life. Even my daughter will have to lead a fatherless life forever. But that seems to be the best option now! I am totally confused. I am waiting for your divine guidance. I have a court date on 3rd July. I will take steps based on your guidance.

Naran25 June A father or husband should fulfill the role totally. If that is not there, being with him will be more painful. When a person fails as a father, what is the use of his being physically present there in the family? It is the fear of being alone which is haunting you. Even when he is not there, can't you love him? "I love him so much therefore he should be with me. If he is not there, I cannot love him." Overcome this attitude and pray for his well-being wherever he is. Then chant what I gave. Healing is for the mind. The suffering is in the mind. Healing is to overcome that. We are entitled to expect what we want. But we can accept what is offered by god, if we think that everything that happens is given by god.

ParimalaJune 25 I agree with your viewpoints totally. In spite of all his wrong doings, in spite of his absence from my life, I still love him a lot. That’s the reason I have been patiently waiting and pursuing him to come back to us and I am willing to live life on his terms. I just need to understand from you and ask you about what you can see for my future. I know you have DIVINE POWERS. I read your blogs how you sometimes honestly tell people not to pursue a particular relationship. In my case, you have not said that so far. That means you are still seeing some positive hopes of my relation working out with husband? Do you feel that we will come back together again? Based on your divine guidance, I wish to take future decisions of my life i.e. whether to patch up with him or break up (as per his desire). Please guide me. Your advice is very valuable to me.

Naran25 June Wait for a week.

ParimalaJuly 2 No positive sign still from my husband. Things seem to be going only from bad to worse and husband is still very negative about our relationship. I just don't know how to bring up my daughter on my own. Am very worried and tensed.

NaranJuly 2 To accept whatever is offered by the divine will help you. Your fear or worry will dampen you further. It is divine who takes care of all of us. I could see your life positive, irrespective of your husband is with you or not.My way of looking at the event is different.

ParimalaJuly 2 Your mail always boosts up my spirit and I feel so happy to find a new mail from you in my mailbox. Agree with you. Do you feel that the divine wants me to separate from him? If I know that, then I need not fight the case and waste time, money and efforts. I can simply accept his proposal for DIVORCE BY MUTUAL CONSENTand set him free. What do you suggest? I have a court date in Madurai tomorrow. These court cases are draining my time, money and energy and the child is getting neglected too.

NaranJuly 2 Attend tomorrow's court by thanking all involved in it, thank what all happened after filing to fight till tomorrow and go with full surrender, and take a decision which comes to your mind in silence.

ParimalaJuly 3 I just came back from Madurai court.I did exactly what you told me and today for the first time, the visit to the court was not depressing at all. I have filed for a huge amount as maintenance, not with the intention of extracting money from him, but just so that he may decide to come back home instead of giving me that big amount. I kept thanking all involved and accepted the decision that came to my mind in silence. I have decided that I will contest the case as long as I have patience, atleast 6 months to a year. After that, if I get fed up then I will agree for mutual consent divorce. If the divine wishes, he too may change his mind by then and decide to come back to me. And then we can be a happy family again. Thanks for your advice. God bless you. I will keep chanting the switch words and all other remedies you have given to me.