The Bach Flower RemedyKey Words Hatred, envy, suspicious, doubt, revengeful attitude, no humour Message from Holly “I love” Indications
Anger , Rage
Fears of being deceived
Frequently feel offended or hurt
You are easily annoyed or you get angry at everything and everybody
Have you ever felt pain when you heard about some one’s luck or happiness?
Was there any occasion you become violent and overheated?
Sibling rivalry
Will do harm to others
The control negative feature of this flower is suspicion. Holly is specific in paranoid personality disorder. The person thinks that others are there to deceive him or play tricks on him.
He doubts the loyalty of others
He doesn’t make friends easily
He has no sense of humor
He is irritated because of suspicion
He considers everybody as his enemy
He has jealousy with anger and insults others
He feels others are happy
He gets easily offended by jokes
Holly people live in a constant state of restless irritation, get angry easily and lose control of them
Even a fly on the wall will anger them in situations of extreme tension Some of the statements from a Holly person are…
Others always misunderstand me
I feel angry at everybody including myself
I easily fly into a rage
Sometimes, I am so tense that even a small thing makes me mad
I often get angry at myself, especially when someone has persuaded me to do something I actually do not want to do
I often have uncontrollable temper tantrums
I am constantly unsatisfied and suffer for no reason
My friends say I am hot-tempered
Sometimes, I am very unfriendly, although the other person has given me no reason to be
I often wake up at night to my own voice and hear myself complaining out aloud
I am resentful
I am very suspicious
It is very difficult for me to forgive myself or others
I feel very jealous when my husband goes to a seminar and therefore, he has to call home every hour.
I often envy other women who are prettier than I am
My temper has become violent (Holly has no feelings of compassion)
I hate……… who has such a happy life
I am bad-tempered, discontented and frustrated, I don’tknow why?Now I have come to a stage where I can’t trust anybody. Usage
HOLLY protects us from everything that is not universal love. It opens our heart and unites us with divine love.
The flower remedy HOLLY helps against anger, hate, envy, jealousy, suspicion and revengefulness
Cut off from others – HOLLY + HEATHER
I always have a feeling of being deceived (deceit). I always suspect that there is something negative in what people say: HOLLY + CRAB APPLE
I feel offended or hurt easily.
When I hear of somebody’s luck or happiness or growth, aflash of envy or jealousy comes in the heart: HOLLY + CHICORY
As a result of their temperament, Holly people suffer acute and violent illness for example, sudden high fever, inflammation burning or itching, skin rashes, allergies. In these cases, HOLLY can be considered.
Sudden shooting of temperature or BP: HOLLY + CHERRYPLUMHOLLYI have become jealous of othersHOLLYI start feeling that people have "ulterior motives" I start suspecting themMIMULUS, HOLLYThe child is often irritable, aggressive